Tuesday, May 4, 2021

Hi Mom, It's Me


In this essay, I am honoring my Mom, and I dedicate it to every mother out there. All are worthy of our love, praise and respect.

Hi Mom, it’s me.

I want to thank you for being my Mom. All that I am I owe to you. Without you, there would be no me. When I think of you I see only pure love.

Thank you for giving me my life. After 10 pregnancies, and losing two of your babies, I would have understood you not wanting more children. Along with my Pop, you decided that you wanted one more son - and that he would be named Eugene. Well, here I am - the third Eugene. Your first two Eugenes died at six months and at six years. Thank you for the courage it must have taken to try again.

When I was born, all of your other children (my 3 brothers and 4 sisters) had grown into adults. Here you were with a brand new baby to care for. I would have understood if you were too tired to look after me. Some of my friends have told me that's how they felt with their youngest child. Not you, Mom. I was afraid of the dark - you stayed with me. Others would scold me - you calmed them and held me. I cried a lot - you would smile at me and I would quiet down. Thank you, Mom.

When I was in the Korean War, I learned so much about your love and what it means to be a Mom. When I was frightened and feared for my life, I prayed to you. In my heart I knew that it would be you who would help me get through my fear. I heard brave Marines, who were dying, calling for their Moms. Thank you, Mom.

The last time I saw you, there was so little time left. I kissed your cheeks that were still so soft and pink. You smiled at me and said, "My good little boy has grown up to be a good man". 
Thank you, Mom.


I am so fortunate to have the unconditional love you have given me. I always felt wanted and safe. Thank you, Mom.

Love, always, your son Eugene